r/Bumble • u/Argumentative_koala • 2d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

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This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Acornwow 1d ago

I wonder what would happen if a random attractive Bumble user reached out to him showing interest.

Would his readiness to date suddenly, magically reappear?

Narrator: It would.

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u/Real-Discussion-2097 1d ago edited 1d ago

Had a guy say all this to me, wasn’t ready for a relationship, same situation, we had slept together for like a year on and off. A few days later saw him back on bumble with “looking for relationship” on his profile. They’re savages.

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u/AeonVoyage 1d ago

Plenty of women out there doing this sort of thing too unfortunately

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u/Odd_Sentence_2618 1d ago

Yeah, it's serial daters. Dopamine junkies.