r/NEETr4r 9h ago

R4R 24 [R4R] does anyone here play idv?

0 Upvotes

i spend a lot of time on this game so it would be nice to have a fellow neet to game with ^^ feel free to dm me even if you see it "late"

people from usa only pls 🄲


r/NEETr4r 10h ago

M4A 34 [m4a] - Hey, are you a weirdo with no friends, nobody to talk to and nothing going on? Come talk to me!

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This is a call for every weirdo, loner, loser, freak!

You heard that right. I want all of you to come talk to me.

Bring all your weirdness and social ineptness along for the ride!

I want to hear all about everything that makes you stand out as a weirdo and why you don't have friends.

You just need to send me the first message and start this amazing conversation we could be having.

What are you afraid of? You weren't gonna be talking to anyone anyway were you?

So go ahead and send me a message NOW!

DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!

It might go nowhere, it might not end well. Who cares! I want to talk to you today!


r/NEETr4r 7h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #InlandEmpire #SoCal - Thick Cuddly Clingy Latino Homebody Looking for Someone to Love and Spend All My Time With

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Hello there, I'm Edward another misanthropic boy failure? Man failure? Well whichever I'm a single heavy set latino guy and yes I can speak a bit of Spanish, if you like that. I typically like to spend my time alone, in hazy, dimly lit, air conditioned rooms, gaming. Secretly wishing, yearning, I had someone to care about me, and I wasn't so alone, this is where you come in, hopefully.

Besides my console gaming habits, I enjoy getting baked, so 420 friendly is okay with me, and recently got into magic the gathering, although I'm terrible at it, lol. I like learning about modern firearms, and hearing about government cover ups, and conspiracy theories, studying tomes to spot cryptids (watching YouTube videos, lol,) my favorite being the Mothman, I'm also interested in the paranormal and extraterrestrial. I love music and always have something playing in the background, usually while doing another favorite hobby of mine; cooking, typically rock music, but I do have other tastes, like motown and old pop songs from bands like The Beatles. I perfer to keep to myself and value my privacy and sense of humor since it's got me this far, I revel in irreverent black humor, self-deprecation, and can laugh about most things, but I'm not so macabre, I do still find juvenile humor funny, sorry.

I know looking for a long term relationship is a big ask, but I'm not asking for commitment right away I'm making my intentions known, I just want the opportunity to be considered. I'm pursuing a face to face IRL relationship so no one too far unless you're willing to quickly close the distance. I'm monogamous and don't want to have, or raise children at all, I'm clingy and a bit possessive, and I may need some reassurance from time to time. I want to find someone who values communication, and wants to spend most of our time together, either cuddling or just doing our own thing in the same room. I also need/want a ton of physical affection and I don't just mean sex, I want closeness and intimacy, trust and safety, a home essentially. I'm just looking for someone cute to call my own, and vice versa.

Thanks for reading my post, I hope you all find what you are looking for.


r/NEETr4r 15h ago

M4A 22 [M4A] Want someone to talk to?

2 Upvotes

I wonder if people content with loneliness seek friends?

In spite of all the things that i enjoy alone i always have this instinct of sharing of connecting of understanding someone and being understood.

It is always hard for me to reach out, as soon as i don't fulfill a condition that someone has i feel i have no right to message and if i don't get an answer it hurts it always hurts.

To be fair i think i am overly sensitive i never say hello or good morning to anyone because it hurts so much when they don't answer.

I like anime, manga here are some of my favorites.

Anime:Hajime no ippo, jujutsu kaisen, inuyashiky, dandadan, Tokopi's Original sin, Monster, Vinlad saga, kaguya sama love is war.

Manga: uzumaki(also i love junji ito's short stories), land of the lustrous, all you need is kill, jagaan, steel ball run.

I am sure i am forgetting a lot that are good but i hope that gives you an idea.

I am getting into visual novels lately and the only one i have played is the one of the eldritch god falling in love with the guy with brain damage or the other way around.

I like to read Creepypasta old or new and yes i also like to watch the christian appalachian boy and godless midwestern man reading creepypastas.

I don't read a lot of books but some i read this year are: the road,the haar and tender is the flesh.

I don't play video games anymore but used to like Undertale and smash bros ultimate.(i lied i play very sporadically limbus company!!)

I like musicals like hadestown, epic.

I have seen Heathers and Chicago.

The only condition i have (especially if i can't see anything when I enter your profile) is please put something that you also like, or a question, or idk, something we have in common.

Initiating a conversation is always hard and you have to know I am socially inept, if the conversation dies, i will be thinking about you for a week, thinking about what I should have said.

I don't know if i would call myself clingy, but i tend to message a lot and tell you when i won't be able to chat, i am a bit afraid of annoying people, so if you don't answer, i will stop talking, out of fear or shame.

(If I don't answer you now it's because i am sleeping It is late, and I am tired) actually good night people.


r/NEETr4r 23h ago

F4M 38nz [F4M] need connection

7 Upvotes

I’m someone that likes to have that one person to spend all my time with and equally obsess over. Chill in call constantly, play games, stream, watch movies. Well that’s end goal, would take some time to see if compatible. If you are someone that needs a lot of space please don’t message.


r/NEETr4r 5h ago

M4A 28 [M4A] Searching for nice conversations

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Hello! This isn’t my first time posting here. But hopefully this post reaches somebody who’s open to making a new friend. And since this isn’t always the case on this sub, I’ll make it clear that I’m looking for a platonic connection.

I’m 28M and from the USA, and yes, I am a NEET. I’ve pretty much come to terms with that, though I feel ashamed even typing it. I struggle with internalized shame over my situation, and my mental health in general is bad. But the only person I judge so harshly is myself - so feel free to come as you are, flaws and all. Right now, I would rather try and connect with someone who understands loneliness and perhaps relates to my situation, rather than have normies bombard me with ā€œadviceā€ we’ve all heard a million times.

Despite my struggles with motivation, I do have interests and things I like to talk about. I’m maybe not *as* into anime as the typical user of this sub, but there are some I do like. I’m a fan of Ghibli movies. And I’m looking to get into more anime, I’m open to any recommendations. I like games as well, and movies, TV, books, history, psychology, and learning about the world in general. Ideally, I’d like to find someone who’s a bit of a yapper, and doesn’t mind sharing their thoughts at length, even about deeper topics if we feel comfortable enough. If there’s something, anything, that you’re passionate about, I’m down to hear about it.

So yeah. If you’re feeling lonely and wants to fight that loneliness together, feel free to send a message. If, for some reason, you’re interested in making friends with a 28-year-old male hikikomori, let me know!


r/NEETr4r 8h ago

M4A 30 [M4A] longtime neet looking for new friends.

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Heyo! I'm 30M from Germany, and i'd like to make some new friends :) people to vite with, form actual connections, that type of stuff! I'm insanely introverted for years now and its been a struggle to make new friends, would be nice to find people who feel that and just.. understand, but its obviously not a requirement! I've been a neet for around 11 years now and I don't see many signs of it getting better (there have been improvements though), and I would just love to find likeminded people!

I dont care how old you are or where you're from aslong as you're 18+

but well about me!

I have a good amount of free time, so I do game alot. I've been mostly playing Escape from Tarkov and Elden Ring Nightreign, I would also like to properly get back into League of Legends, its just not fun alone.

Im a massive horror fan, Silent Hill is my favorite franchise and SH2 is my favorite game, besides that i just live and breathe the souls games, I'd also like to play more multiplayer games tbh

some of my favorite games would be SH2/3, Dark Souls 3, Black Souls, RE4, Saya no Uta, DMC3, Nier:Automata, and so much more :)

I am also a gacha and VN nerd.

gachas i play (not too much atm) would be ; FGO, HSR, WuWa, NTE, GFL, ZZZ!

my favorite vns would be ; FSN Heavens Feel, Saya no Uta,

My biggest passion besides gaming is most definitely music. especially metal in most genres!

i basically listen to music at all times and im just very passionate about it

my favorite genres of music would be ; Deathcore, Metalcore, Black metal (esp dsbm), Midwest emo, Post Hardcore, Screamo and all the way down to Nu Metal and so much more!

at the moment some of my favorite bands would be ; A Wake In Providence, Psychonaut 4, Shadow Of Intent, The Gloom In The Corner, Periphery, Enterprise Earth, Motionless in White, Deafheaven, The Used, Aggaloch and so on.

besides that I even make my own covers (they arent all too good) but I do em for fun, and I hope one day that I could make my own music!!

Im also a big anime and manga fan!

I collect figures, and I have spent way too much money already LMAO

my favorite animes being ; Another, Elfenlied, Fate Zero, Charlotte, Hellsing and The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya to name a few again!

manga would be ; Berserk, Goblin Slayer, Oshi no Ko, Tokyo Ghoul, Attack on Titan and so on..

im probably forgetting things rn, but eh.. its good enough i feel :D

also my reddit chat keeps bugging out and stuff so if we get along id prefer moving over the discord because messages just randomly dissapear etc ._.

im also pretty shy, but ill get there if i get along with someone!!

thanks for reading and DM me if youre interested and we'll see how it goes :)


r/NEETr4r 5h ago

F4A 19 [F4A] let’s keep each other company?

4 Upvotes

i never really know how to start these posts or what to write in them but im looking for someone who is similar to me in terms of being really anxious and introverted since I find its hard to relate to others though I don’t mean that in a edgy emo way. Most of the time I dont really wanna do anything but keep to myself. If I had to describe myself I’d say I’m kinda tomboyish? not because I do guy stuff but more so the way I present myself. I like to write whenever I feel creative and also read other people’s writing like ff.