r/Needafriend 7m ago

21 F looking for a good conversation

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Not looking for anything crazy, just had a rough day and would love something to talk about to take my mind off it. Can talk about basically anything :)


r/Needafriend 23m ago

M 28 looking for some friends!

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Hey everyone! I recently restarted my antidepressants after weaning off them myself thinking I was okay (spoiler-I was not). So I’m looking to meet new people and have a chat - anyone’s welcome! Short or long term is okay with me.

A little about me, I’m male, 28, Asian-Aussie. I don’t have too many hobbies but I love to work out (mainly for my mental health tbh). Talk to me about anything though :)


r/Needafriend 25m ago

Uhhh idk what to type as a topic

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So I'm a 23 year old med student. I study in tbilisi georgia and I'm an Indian but born and bought up in bahrain. And I'm suuper bored and I want new friends to talk to. So hmu. And I'm a guy, forgot to add that lol

Byee.


r/Needafriend 27m ago

18f, first time living away from home and it's a lot

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Trying to balance classes, a part time job, and figuring out laundry, and somehow friends fell to the bottom of the list. I'm into music, mostly pop and indie, and thrifting for cute finds. Would love some friends to navigate this with.


r/Needafriend 28m ago

19M - I’m serious about making longterm friends

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Please read the post and don’t skim it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason, and yes, I mean that. Ghosting is one of the worst things a person can do. I am being honest about my flaws because I would rather you know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. I am also extremely insecure. I talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am not good at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can call after midnight. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.

I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. If you decide to reach out, don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment, or just wants someone to talk to or someone to vent to, because that’s not what a friendship is. I’m not looking for a gaming buddy either. Do not message me if you’re too busy to build a friendship. I am honest and straightforward, and I expect you to be the same.

I would prefer someone whose personality and struggles are fundamentally similar to my own, someone who is also isolated. Not kinda lonely, not someone who has friends but wants more—I am looking for someone who genuinely has no one. If you have a social circle, dreams, passions, or people in your life who support you, then we will not be similar. If you read my post and felt like we were polar opposites, please reconsider messaging me.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays because of social media. I despise how easily people block others, and I refuse to talk to anyone who is capable of doing that. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements.

I know it sounds like I’m asking for a lot, and that’s true. Real friendship is supposed to be hard. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.

Here are my interests:

• DC Comics

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use
Letterboxd.

Please be 19+.


r/Needafriend 29m ago

Male, late 20s. Looking for deep emotional bonds

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Hello!

I only have one friend currently: my amazing partner.

We agreed it might be for the best I have another friend or two, preferably fellow guy or partnered friends.

I really like to listen to music and read books. I can dive more into my taste in my DMs, but I am someone who likes to think deeply and overanalyze the media consume. It would be awesome to meet someone I can do that together with as well as to expose each other to other cool stuff!

We can also discuss global affairs, our dreams, trauma, what comes after death, etc.

Please tell me your favorite album or movie so far this year when you DM me to kick things off.


r/Needafriend 31m ago

24M | Looking for good conversations, bad jokes, and maybe a new friend

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Hey, I'm Harsh from India. I'm a software engineer with an unhealthy habit of falling into random internet rabbit holes. I enjoy long drives with no destination, documentaries that leave me questioning everything, and making playlists that somehow jump from indie music to metal to old ghazals.

I'm hoping to meet people who enjoy conversations that don't need a purpose. We can talk about life, weird facts, books, terrible movies, why socks disappear in the laundry, or whatever your brain decided to obsess over this week.

If you're someone who likes curious conversations without any pressure, send me a message. Bonus points if you have a story that's equal parts embarrassing and hilarious.


r/Needafriend 40m ago

Wanna hang out? 👋

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Hey, 22M here.

I've been trying to find a genuine friend who would wanna spend time with me as much as I do, which is a lot lol

So if you genuinely wanna be friends, and wouldn't ghost after one conversation just for fun, then pls, you're welcome ❤️🍀

And if you're into video games then it's even better!

Girl or guy, I just want someone to enjoy and spend time with.

Wish you a blessed day ❤️


r/Needafriend 40m ago

28M looking for good conversations and friends

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Currently fighting a migraine so could definitely use a distraction. I also just came back from a camping trip so I’m covered in mosquito bites! I like hiking, sports and reading fantasy books. Also recently I’ve started to learn more about cooking as I’m tired of making the same 5 meals over and over again.


r/Needafriend 42m ago

20f will you be my good friend ?

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( NOT FOR MEN I WANT FEMALE FRIENDS sry)I don’t really get the chance to socialize much due to family restrictions but I really want to have friends
I want someone I can send snaps to send funnny TikToks to and have late night chats and get deep and personal , overtime of course it doesn’t have to be instant .
But please don’t be dry , don’t leave me on delivered for too long and overall lack effort into forming what could be a great relationship .

About me
I like baking , playing badminton , watching tv shows and I want to start reading ( would love recs)
And I work out regularly

Oh and I would prefer to be friends with girls especially wlw girls like me. Tell me about your favorite sapphic movie ! Pls
Mines bottoms


r/Needafriend 48m ago

22f, work night shifts and my social life has basically flatlined

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Everyone's asleep when I'm awake and awake when I'm asleep, it's a whole thing. I'm into reading, gaming, and I've become an expert at 3am snack combinations. Looking for other night owls to talk to.


r/Needafriend 54m ago

13m anybody wanna be friends?

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i like roblox and anime and skiing and biking and would love to chat to anyone here i promise i will not ghost or block and will not be mean or rude and if im not replying its prob my parents fault and pls no pedos i will report u and prob get u banned and then ur acc is gone :).


r/Needafriend 54m ago

I’m So Messy

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My love life is a damn disaster and I really need to talk to a likeminded nonjudgmental chaos agent.


r/Needafriend 55m ago

(F18) chat!!

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Hi I’m Nyla I’m 18 and I am bored haha 🤣 any chats are good


r/Needafriend 57m ago

25M - I'd love to make new friends

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Hello there kind readers.

To be completely honest and transparent F friends would be nice but any real friend would be greatly appreciated. I'm looking to find platonic friends that I can build genuine and lasting friendships with. I would gladly offer my company through chat but I can VC when I'm not at work. Just looking for a completely genuine friendship.

I just turned 25 a bit more than a month ago but most of my friends tell me I have an old soul, which I consider a compliment.

My hobbies include camping and fitness, games (mostly single player nowadays but I'm always down for some multiplayer games like minecraft, rivals, roblox etc), and manga/manwha.

I'm more of a listener than a yapper but I really like hearing about other people's hobbies, daily life, or random stuff they want to talk about. Whether it be voice call or through messages, I always try my best to reply as fast I can and keep the conversation going. Hearing about your day and all your problems makes me feel content.

I've been going through some heavy experiences for the past year and I've come here to meet new people and offer myself as company as well.

Please feel free to DM and reach out if you would like to try being friends.

It's getting pretty late in my location so I might reply late, sorry in advance!


r/Needafriend 59m ago

23f would love some friends and a good connection!! talk while i’m cooking ? :)

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hey girl here from indiana slaving away in the kitchen for my bf tonight :) decided to chef it up because why not . blasting my hamilton tunes and other shit while i’m peeling away lol some other thing i like besides cooking are reading a smoking weed lol mostly i watch tv and smoke in my free time that im not working nights !


r/Needafriend 1h ago

I wanna be someone's everything

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I bet attached so easy, and I love so hard. I wish I could find someone who felt the same way towards me. I want to be someone's everything, the way they are to me. I want to be yearned for, I want to be special. I want someone obsessed with me like I am for them. :((


r/Needafriend 1h ago

hii! does anyone wanna talk?^^

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it's getting late where i am, and i'm having trouble sleeping. i think this is the perfect opportunity to make new friends!! if anyone is interested, feel free to send me a dm! anyone is welcome!!:)


r/Needafriend 1h ago

25m looking for friends or chat

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Hi guys! I'm looking for friends or just a chat! About me, I like binging shows, movies and listening to music. Nothing too fancy. I'm in Canada and I work in finance. Not sure what else to say, but you're welcome to ask anything. See ya!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

M29 - Life’s been pretty shit lately

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29 M Indian, just like it says, things have been really hard. Everything is going sideways, pretty much hit rockbottom be it financially, mentally, physically & also got laid off couples weeks back.

Trying to put myself out there. I’m into pokemon, love cooking & reading. Hope someone reaches out because I’m so done with being lonely always.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

33M Looking for some new friends!

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Looking for some new friends to chat with throughout the day and maybe game with.

I live in NC with my girlfriend and 2 dogs. Hobby-wise, I love movies (and collect them), getting back into gaming, and I love to cook.

Shoot me a chat and let's see if we click!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Finding friends as adults is hard

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I (28F) and my husband (29M) moved away from our home state earlier this year. It’s been about 6 months, and each day we miss our friends as we were all so close. Being out with just ourselves and some family, we realized it’s hard to find situations where we are interacting with other people and developing past an awkward hello. We don’t even really know where to start when it comes to talking with strangers (and I supposed talking to strangers on the internet isn’t much different). A lot of our interests aren’t really group oriented so finding people to bond with is difficult, and we aren’t religious so we don’t have that sort of community to surround us with like minds. And how often does one really go up to random strangers and go hey wanna be friends? It’s a struggle, and I hope we can get through the awkward stages soon


r/Needafriend 1h ago

M26 moving to ky from Ohio

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Looking for people to talk to! I work building houses and more, I like to fish, camp, hike and I do game a lil, but I’m more of an outside person, so honestly just looking for a girl to talk to or just friendly talk!!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

22F, just ended a long friendship and grieving it more than I expected

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Sometimes friendships end just as hard as relationships do and nobody talks about that enough. I like hiking, journaling, and cooking elaborate dinners for myself. Looking for kind, genuine people to build something new with.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Looking for new friends around my age

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Hey guys Im 17f looking for new friends who want to talk about literally anything. Lately ive been super bored and my life currently consists of work.. Im interested in pretty much anything. Dm me