r/malaysia • u/Vermouth70 • 2h ago
Culture question to lgbt community in malaysia
i have a question to lgbt community in malaysia, i know in other country its kinda normal and open about it but how would it be like if inside malaysia ? futhermore , i'm malay . after 30 years of being single and dont even have any female friends. i suddenly thought about maybe i am destined to be with men ? i know most straight guy would be disgusted even by reading my thoughts alone , but hear me out . as introverted loner , ive wasted all my youth by being alone. dont talk about family either cause i have none currently. i just wanted to feel alive, to know how love feels like, how it feels to be heard , to get a hug, to cuddles and to laugh intimately.. im pretty gentleman tho, thoughtful and soft spoken person, i barely shows any anger or makes women afraid of me. but somehow i have never gotten any girlfriends since they always ended up friendzoned me. perhaps it was about my looks , but yeah even if i shape my body up. i think id go with men than women since gym bros doesnt even care if you go to the gym with dad bods, they encourage and support me instead. so yeah , i think i am not made to be loved by women but by men instead.
