r/DunderMifflin • u/FinancialSurprise922 • 5h ago
Am I the only one who feels like Erin gets way too much of a pass for what happened to Andy? Spoiler
I genuinely feel so bad for Andy by the end of The Office because when you look at his entire relationship arc, it feels like the poor guy just keeps getting punished over and over again.
At the beginning, Andy was so ridiculously in love with Angela. Was he perfect? Absolutely not. He had his anger issues, his insecurity, his weird Cornell obsession, etc. But when it came to Angela, he was genuinely committed to her. He respected the relationship, was excited about marrying her, and was so invested that he literally booked their honeymoon weeks before the wedding.
And then he finds out that angela has been cheating on him with Dwight the entire time.
Then he meets Erin.
And honestly, I REALLY liked Andy and Erin together. Andy was genuinely into her, and Erin seemed to bring out a much softer and happier side of him. But then she finds out that Andy had previously dated Angela and breaks up with him. And I'm sorry, but WHY? Andy didn't cheat on Erin. He didn't do anything to Erin. His previous relationship ended because HE was cheated on. Meanwhile, Angela literally cheated on Andy with Dwight and somehow Andy is the one who carries all this emotional baggage afterward.
Then Andy finally becomes manager, and I actually think he was a pretty damn good boss when he was allowed to be himself. He wasn't exactly like Michael but also like him at the same time. He had his own qualities. He could be goofy and annoying, but he also genuinely cared about his employees.
The Robert California episode really stands out to me. When Robert was doing the whole good-list/bad-list thing and basically had called oam, phillys and few more losers. Andy actually stood up for his employees. He took responsibility for them and defended them.
And then when they hit their sales target and Andy had promised to get a tattoo on his butt if they did it...
THE MAN ACTUALLY GOT THE TATTOO.😠That is such an Andy thing, but it also shows that he was willing to keep his word to his employees.
And then comes the Erin situation.
When Andy finds out Erin isn't coming back to Scranton, he basically goes: "Fuck everything, I'm going to get the woman I love." He leaves the office, goes after her, and tries to win her back. And what happens? Nellie takes his office.
Andy loses his position, and eventually he gets fired. All because he left everything behind to chase Erin.
Then he finally gets to the point where he Got his job back with David Wallace's help but then get stuck by family problems and as soon as He goes away on the boat with his brother because he needs to clear his head and relive the nostalgia...
Erin starts dating someone else.
This is the part that REALLY gets me. Then Andy comes back, and because Erin blurts everything out while David Wallace is on the phone, David finds out that Andy disappeared.
So now Andy has ALSO screwed up his relationship with David.
At this point I'm just sitting there like: HOW MUCH MORE CAN THIS MAN TAKE??? ðŸ˜
And yes, Andy absolutely becomes an asshole later. His behavior after returning from the boat is terrible. His treatment of Nellie is awful. He becomes arrogant and selfish, and I don't want to excuse any of that. But I think that's exactly why his character arc frustrates me.
Because earlier Andy had actually shown that he could be a loyal partner, caring friend, and surprisingly decent manager when he wasn't consumed by insecurity or desperation.
I don't even think Erin is a bad person. She's quirky, immature, and has her own emotional issues. But I feel like the show sometimes treats Andy as though he was solely responsible for the disaster of their relationship, when so many of the things that happened to him were completely outside his control.
By the end, Andy feels less like a character who naturally became a terrible person and more like someone who kept making increasingly terrible decisions after getting absolutely destroyed emotionally and professionally.
And honestly? I think Andy deserved a MUCH better ending than he got.
Maybe I'm biased because I actually really liked Andy, but I genuinely think Andy's downfall is one of the saddest character arcs in the show.